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Do You Have a Happy Sex Life? Signs That You May

Many couples are often curious about their sex life and how it compares to the
sex life of others. In all honesty, you are able to determine, on your own, if
your sex life is good, happy, and healthy. With that said, there are some
common signs that you may want to look for. These signs, a few of which are
outlined below, often signal a happy and healthy sex life. Are you receiving
the ultimate level of satisfaction?

Sign #1 -- You Have a Healthy Relationship

Couples who have a healthy relationship use communication with each other and
often. They are able to let their partners know when something is bothering
them. Each partner understands that their relationship involves two fully
committed individuals. Couples with happy and healthy sex lives often do not
have unrealistic expectations or make excess demands on their partners.

Sign #2 -- Experimentation in the Bedroom

Experimenting in the bedroom is another sign that you may have a happy and
healthy sex life. Of course, this does not mean that you and your partner have
to become the next big adult movie stars, but experimentation can improve your
sex life significantly. It is also important to remember that experimentation
comes in a number of different formats. It can be something as simple as having
sex at a different time of the day, in a different part of the house, or
extended foreplay sessions. Fantasies and fetishes are fun and okay, but only
if both parties agree to them. Be sure to consult with your partner before
going "overboard."

Sign #3 -- Sex is Given Freely

In many relationships, especially long-term relationships, sex can be seen as a
chore. This isn't how it should be. Sex should be something that you and your
partner want, not a responsibility that needs to be fulfilled. If you and your
partner are open to both spontaneously engaging in the act, you may have a
happy and healthy sex life. When you have sex because you want to, as opposed
to because it is your "job," maximum benefit and pleasure is achieved.

Sign #4 -- Sex Becomes a Regular Part of the Relationship

It is no secret that having an active sexual relationship can be difficult.
With raising families, working, and other common duties, sex can often take a
back seat. Another sign that you may have a happy and healthy sex life is if
you don't let your day to day responsibilities and duties get in the way of
having sex. Regardless of how busy you are, if you still find time to have sex
with your partner, you have a healthy sex life. Just be sure to remember that
sex doesn't have to be scheduled. In fact, spontaneous sex can do wonders for a
relationship.

Sign #5 -- Sex is more than Just an Act

Contrary to what most people believe, sex is more than just having intercourse.
An important component of having a happy and healthy sex life is that of
engaging in foreplay. Foreplay can be something as simple as holding hands or
giving a relaxing massage. Love notes, kind gestures, and doing something that
your partner may not expect on a daily basis are all easy ways to keep your
partner interested in you, both emotionally and physically. You have a healthy
and happy sex life when the romance continues on long past intercourse has come
to an end.

So, do you have a happy and healthy sex life? If a number of the above mentions
signs describes your relationship with your significant other, there is a good
chance that you do.

Even if you have a happy and healthy sex life now, it is important to remember
that things may change. Remember that as time passes, it may be easier to let
sex impact your relationship negatively. Be sure to always keep an open line of
communication with your partner, especially where sex and their needs are
concerned.

How to Talk to Your Wife About Sex

Are you married? If you are, there are likely a lot of topics that you and your
wife discuss throughout the day. Common conversation topics include work,
friends, family, and bills. One topic that many couples do not always discuss,
even though they should, is that of sex. Are you interested in improving your
sex life? If you are, you may need to talk to your wife, but should you?

Yes. You should. It is important to talk to your wife. An open line of
communication is important to have a happy and healthy relationship in general.
Poor communication may have a negative impact on your entire relationship, not
just your sex life. Husbands who do not properly communicate with their wives
often end up putting their relationships in harms way. Do not let this happen
to you and your marriage.

If you do decide to talk to your wife about sex, namely improving your
intimacy, it is important to proceed with caution. You do not want to criticize
your wife or make her feel inadequate. Are you not having your desires filled?
If so, don't outright tell your wife that. Doing so may cause even more
problems to arise. You do want to get the best level of intimacy possible, but
you also don't want to hurt your wife's feelings in the process. For that
reason, you may want to try a different approach. Consider suggesting new
things in the bedroom, such as a new position or a weekend away.

When talking to your wife about sex, it is also important not to push. If you
want to see an improvement in your sex, state so and give a few suggestions.
However, do not keep on brining the topic back up. Give your wife a few days or
even a few weeks to make adjustments in the bedroom. This time is needed because
your wife may be hurt when she learns that you aren't pleased by her sexually.
It is natural for her to take time to think about the situation before taking
action, which may involve implementing a few of your suggestions.

Next, it is important to listen to what your wife has to say. Unfortunately,
many men make mistake of believing that their wives just aren't interested in
being intimate anymore. Although this can be true in some cases, it likely
isn't the case with your wife. Your wife may experience other problems. For
example, many women are nervous and fearful of aging. This may result in them
wanting to showcase their body less. A deceased sex drive may also be caused by
something out of your wife's control, such as a medical condition or a
medication side effect. That is why it is not only important to talk to your
wife, but also listen to what she has to say.

If you still do not know how to start a conservation about sex and intimacy
with your wife, there is another approach that you can take. You can consider
giving her a gift. There are a number of great gifts available that can not
only be useful in the bedroom, but gifts that can help to get a conversation
started. A book on new sexual positions, a new sexy outfit, or massage oils are
all items that you may want to examine. A gift not only provides you with an
opportunity to start a conversation, but it is also a nice gesture. Depending
on what you decide to purchase, you may find it easier to shop online. Many
stores are discrete with the packages they send out; therefore, you should be
able to keep your wife's gift a surprise even if she is the one to pickup the
mail.

In short, talking to your wife about sex may be something that you want to
avoid, but you shouldn't. An open line of communication is vital to a happy and
healthy relationship.

How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex

Are you married? If so, there is a lot that you and your wife probably discuss
throughout the day. Your conversation topics may cover work, family, and the
bills. What about sex? Do you and your husband talk about sex? If not, it may
be something that you need to discuss with him. One of the biggest signs that a
conversation is needed is if you are currently unhappy in the bedroom. As much
as you may want to talk to your husband about making improvements in the
bedroom, you may be curious as to whether or not it is really a good idea.

So, is it a good idea to talk to your husband about sex? Yes, it is and it is
something that you two should discuss. In fact, an open line of communication
is important for all relationships to succeed. Poor communication is often the
downfall of many marriages. A lack of communication or poor communication may
have a negative effect on your whole relationship, not just your sex life. As a
wife, it is your responsibility to talk to your husband and to keep an open line
of communication. If you don't, you may end up putting your happiness and your
marriage on the line. Do not let this happen to you.

As for the talk itself, it is important that you proceed with caution. Do not
criticize your husband or make them feel inadequate. If there is one thing that
men take pride in, it is their ability to have sex and please their partners.
Unfortunately, that pleasure may not be enough for you. Yes, you want to bring
this to the attention of your husband, but do so gently. Outright telling your
husband that he isn't fulfilling your needs is likely to create even more
problems in your relationship. Instead, gently approach the subject. You may
want to start by casually making a suggestion, such as a new position.

Next, it is important to listen to what your husband has to say. This is
important as your communication should not be one sided. When talking to your
husband about intimacy say what you have to say, but then let them speak his
mind.

Why it is so important to listen to what your husband has to say concerning
intimacy? For starters, as previously stated, a happy and healthy relationship
must involve communication from other parties, not just one sided conversations. 
It is also important to note that their may be a good reason why your husband 
may not be performing up to your standards in the bedroom. Are they experiencing 
uncertainty due to an increase in age, a weight gain, or another change in 
physical appearance? What about medical problems? Did you know that some medical 
conditions, such as depression, and some medicines can lead to a decrease in the 
want or need for intimacy?

Even with the above mentioned tips, you may still be unsure as to how you
should talk to your husband about sex. You may be feeling this way if you are
worried about the consequences or hurting his feelings. This is completely
natural, but do know that you do have another option. Consider giving a gift or
performing a gesture that may lead to the topic of intimacy being discussed.
Whether you plan a spontaneous romantic dinner, purchase a romantic or
pornographic movie, or buy something sexy for your husband to wear, a gift may
help to get a new conversation started.

As previously stated, talking to your husband about sex and intimacy may be
hard for you. With that said, it is important that you do have the talk. Not
only is an open line of communication important for intimacy, but it is also
important for a healthy relationship in general. As reminder, don't just talk
to your husband about sex, but be sure to listen to what he has to say as well.

4 Ways to Improve Your Intimacy with Your Wife

Are you married? If so, you likely love your wife, right? Despite a deep and
intense love for your wife, you may still want to see an improvement in your
intimacy. After all, what man doesn't want good sex?

If you want to improve your intimacy with your wife, it is important to know
that you have a number of different options. Unfortunately, many men
automatically start think of the bedroom. Yes, you do want to "wow," your wife
in the bedroom, but that is not all that sex and intimacy is about. In fact,
that is where many marriages go wrong. Too much focus is placed on the sex or
the lack of it.

To help you properly improve your intimacy with your wife, please continue
reading on. A few easy to implement, yet successful approaches are highlighted
below for your convenience.

1 -- Date Her

How long have you been married? If you have been married for a number of years
now, do you honestly remember when your last "real," date was. Unfortunately,
many men underestimate the power of a date. You will not want to make this
mistake. If you opt just for the sex, your wife may start to feel like it is
her responsibility to please you and this is not how a relationship should work.

To not only improve your satisfaction in the bed, but to improve your wife's
satisfaction, take her out on a date. Many times, getting out of the house is
enough to bring new excitement into a relationship. For the best level of
success, choose a romantic date theme, such as a fancy dinner, a romantic
movie, or a night at a nice hotel.

2 -- Compliment Her

When is the last time that you have paid your wife a truly nice and unique
compliment? If it has been a while, it is time for you to start again. Is your
wife wearing a new outfit? Has she recently started a weight loss plan? Did
your wife get her hair cut? If so, be sure to compliment her. Complimenting
your wife on her appearance will increase her self-confidence. This, in turn,
can improve experiences in the bedroom.

As important as it is to compliment your wife on her appearance, it is also
important to remember to compliment her on other areas of your relationship. Do
you notice that the house is clean? Has your wife prepared a nice dinner? If so,
thank her for the job well done. This will not only help to improve your
relationship in general, but it can have an impact on your experiences in the
bedroom.

3 -- Seduce Her

What is sex like in your home? Does it occur like clockwork? Do you actually
take the time to ask your wife if she wants to have sex? If so, try to refrain
from doing so. Yes, you may be rejected, due to a headache or being tired, but
why not take the chance? Be spontaneous. Seduce your wife. Make her want to
have sex with you.

4 -- Fulfill Her Fantasies

In keeping with seducing your wife, let her know that you want to fulfill her
fantasies. It may take your wife a few times to open up about what she likes or
fantasizes about sexually, but the information will likely come out soon. Give
it your all to fulfill your wife's sexual fantasies. It is also important to
note that afterwards is the perfect time to share your fantasies and sexual
desires with your wife. In end, you may all end up being much more pleased.

As you can see, there are a number of different ways that you can go about
improving the intimacy in your relationship. Please remember, however, that you
want to get started in someplace other than the bedroom. Sex in a marriage is
about more and should be more than just the act itself. Taking the time to date
and compliment your wife will more than pay off in the end.

4 Easy Ways to Spice Up Things in the Bedroom

Are you in a relationship that seems as if it is stalled in the bedroom? If so,
your first thought may be to terminate the relationship. But, what if your
relationship is long-term? What if you are married? What if you really do love
your partner? What steps should you take then?

When it comes to being unhappy in the bedroom, it is important to know that
ending a marriage or a relationship should only be used as a last approach.
Instead, you will want to take steps to spice things up. Doing so may improve
more than just your intimacy, but it may do wonders for your relationship in
general.

As nice as it is to hear that you can and should spice things up and in the
bedroom, you may be unsure as to how you should proceed. If that is the case,
please continue reading on. Below, four easy ways that you can spice things up
in the bedroom, are covered.

1 -- Engage in Foreplay

When you do have sex, what happens? Do you and your partner get right down to
business? If you do, that may be a huge problem. Unfortunately, many couples do
not realize that intimacy is more than just about having sex. It is also about
having a happy and healthy relationship. If you rely on sex to make your
relationship succeed, there is a very good chance that it will actually fail.

If you and your partner don't already engage in foreplay, start doing so. Also,
remember that foreplay doesn't have to start in the bedroom. Call your lover,
send a text message, or a handwritten note expressing your desires to get
intimate with them later on.

2 -- Be Spontaneous

When you want to have sex, what do you do? If you actually take the time to ask
your partner if they want to be intimate with you, you may be doing more harm
than good. Asking first can make being intimate seem more like a chore than
something that should bring you pleasure. The next time that you want to move
to the bedroom, don't ask first. Just lead your partner there. In fact, who
needs a bedroom?

Know that being spontaneous is about more than not talking about sex first.
Ways that you can be spontaneous with your partner is to have sex at a
different time, date, or place.

3 -- Talk About Your Fantasies

One of the biggest reasons why couples have problems with sex is because one
person isn't having their desires fulfilled. If that is the case with you? Does
your partner know what you like or what you want to get out of being intimate?
If not, it is time for you to let them know.

Be sure to talk to your partner about your sexual fantasies and desires. What
would you like to try in the bedroom? In addition to expressing your wants,
needs, and darkest fantasies, be sure to let your partner do the same. Remember
that both of you should walk away from an intimate encounter pleased.

4 -- Experiment in the Bedroom

Another one of the easy ways that you can spice up things in the bedroom is by
experimenting. When doing so, you may be pleased with all of your options. For
starters, you can try a new sex position. This may not only lead to extra
pleasure, but fun and excitement. Sex toys, romantic or pornographic videos,
and role playing are other good ideas for experimenting in the bedroom.

Remember that experimenting in the bedroom is a good way to spice up your
intimacy, but be sure to use your best judgment. It may be a wise decision to
first discuss making changes with your partner, as you will not want to make
him or her feel uncomfortable.

So there you have it! You know have a few ideas on how you can go about spicing
up things in the bedroom. So what are you waiting for? Get started today.

How Simple Dates Can Improve Your Intimacy

Love and romance are two important aspects of an intimate relationship. When
looking to develop or maintain a relationship, dating is an important
component. Unfortunately, after time has passed, many couples enter into an
area of comfort. This comfort zone often has a significant and negative impact
on one's relationship and marriage. Do not let it have the same impact on yours.

To prevent you and your partner from falling into the above mentioned comfort
zone, where dating and courting are a thing of the past, knowledge is key. It
is important to never underestimate the power of a simple date. A regular date
with a partner or spouse can reignite sparks. A date can bring romance back
into the relationship. If you are not in a serious relationship right now, it
is still important to understand dating and its importance. It is an easy, yet
important way to get to know a potential partner and start a budding
relationship.

If your relationship is that of marriage, dating is a crucial factor in keeping
your relationship fresh and alive. In fact, dating can help to save an otherwise
failing marriage. This doesn't mean that each date must be overly romantic or
that you have to spend a lot of money to "wow," your husband or wife. Often
times, simply just spending time alone with your partner can be enough to help
keep the romance alive. Each night does not have to be a date, but know that
going on a date with your spouse on a consistent basis helps to ensure that
love and romance remains a part of the relationship.

As for why dating is important for your marriage. It is important, as it
prevents your husband or wife from making assumptions. For example, your wife
may believe that you would rather not be seen with her in public or that you
are ashamed to showcase your relationship. Skipping out on dating after
marriage may unintentionally make your spouse feel as if you don't care about
them anymore. The absence of dating can also cause boredom and cause an
"average," relationship to develop.
This can, unfortunately, lead to relationship troubles and possibly even
divorce.

To keep your relationship strong, you will want to make a commitment to plan
regular date activities with your partner. Common, popular, and standard date
activities, such as dinner and a movie, are nice, but it is also important to
think outside of the box. Choose activities that help create romance. If you do
opt for a movie with your partner, choose one with a romantic theme, as it can
help to ignite the passion.

As previously stated, try to think out of the box, in terms of dates. Unique
dating experiences can also help create more romance and improve your intimacy.
Spend a weekend at a nice hotel together, take a dinner cruise, or try a fun,
yet romantic adventure, like horseback riding. These types of activities can
help the sparks to fly in your relationship. Unusual and out of the ordinary
dates can be very romantic.

If you and your partner are parents, it is important to know that dating can be
complicated, but it is still more than possible. You may find that it is quite
difficult to get away without the kids, but it is vital to find a way! There
are several options for parents, like you. These options include hiring a
babysitter or asking a family member to watch the kids for a few hours. Going
out on dates when you are parents who have children takes careful planning, but
the effort is more than worth it. Your relationship and intimacy levels can
flourish when you are given time alone.

As a recap, dating can build and nourish your relationship. It can also help to
improve intimacy, which is an important component of a happy and healthy
relationship. Remember that a strong relationship often translates into more
fun, love, and passion in the bedroom.

How to Approach the Subject of Experimenting in the Bedroom

Are you bored with your sex life? If you are, you may want to spice things up a
bit in the bedroom. A great way to do so is to try new thing. Experimenting in
the bedroom often brings new life to a relationship. It can also allow couples
to reach new levels of pleasure.

When it comes to experimenting, many individuals and their minds automatically
wander. It is important to remember that bedroom experimenting comes in a
number of different formats. It doesn't have to involve something that would be
embarrassing if it leaked out and it doesn't have to involve bringing in a third
person. Experimenting in the bedroom can honestly mean something as simple as
trying a new position.

Although many individuals, like you, want to experiment in the bedroom, many
are afraid to approach their partner about doing so. Why? Because there is a
certain level of fear associated with doing so. What if your partner thinks
that they don't please or satisfy you enough in the bedroom? What if your
partner thinks that the sex is just fine the way it is? What if your sex
partner thinks that you have a sick mind? These are all concerns that you may
have, but you shouldn't let that stop you.

If you do decide to approach the subject of experimenting in the bedroom with
your partner, you will want to be gentle with your approach. Your partner may
automatically believe that he or she isn't pleasing enough for you. Although
this may not be what you mean, it is still a likely and natural assumption. If
your partner asks you, be sure to calm their fears. Let them know that you
think that experimenting in the bedroom could not only increase your pleasure
and satisfaction, but theirs as well. This approach tends to work nicely.

As it was previously stated, when many individuals hear the phrase
"experimenting in the bedroom," their minds often wanders to embarrassing and
sometimes humiliating experiences. If you are just looking to try a new sex
position, introduce pleasure enchasing sex toys, or romantic movies, be sure to
let your partner know immediately. Do not give him or her the opportunity to
even think that you mean something different. Doing so can change the way that
your partner looks at you, both inside and outside of the bedroom.

In addition to letting your partner know what changes you would like to make in
the bedroom, give them the opportunity to express their wants, needs, and
desires. This is a simple, yet important step to take. First, it is important
to remember that intimacy should involve two people receiving maximum pleasure,
not just one. Next, it will help bring reassurance to your partner that you are
not just looking to increase your pleasure. Asking what your partner's wants
and needs are in the bedroom will go to show that you want to improve the
overall experience, not just yours.

Despite the fact that experimenting in the bedroom may sometimes be a difficult
subject to approach, it is one that you will want to talk about. A healthy sex
life is an important component of any relationship and marriage. By approaching
the subject carefully, you and your partner can soon be having wild, yet
pleasurable sex in no time at all.

When Professional Help Is Needed to Help You Have a Better Sex Life

Are you married? If you are, are you currently satisfied with the level and
amount of intimacy that you receive? If you are not, you may want to take
action right away. Although a marriage should not be built on sex, it is still
an important component.

Unfortunately, when it comes to intimacy and not receiving enough of it, there
are many husbands and wives who automatically think that their marriage is
over. Why? Because many believe that a poor level of intimacy is the sign of
boredom or the lack of love. Yes, this can be true in some cases, but only a
small number of cases.

What you need to realize about intimacy is that there are a number of reasons
why problems occur. Just because your husband or wife does not want to be
intimate with you or if they act like they want to get through the whole
experience as quickly as possible, it does not mean that there is something
wrong with you. There may be other issues to blame, other issues that may
require professional help.

Some men and women just have low sex drives. They may have always been this way
or their need may have decreased with age. In these types of situations,
professional help is advised. Some men and women can try their hardest, but
they still aren't interested in getting intimate with their spouses, no matter
how much they do love and cherish them.

If you suspect that you or your partner has a decreased sex drive, medical
attention is advised. It is important to know that there are many solutions to
the problem. Both men and women can use medication to revive their sexual wants
and needs. Speaking of medication, did you also know that medication can be to
blame? Some prescription medications have side effects that include a decreased
sex drive.

If there is no physical or emotional reason for your lack of intimacy, such as
depression or a low sex drive, professional help is still advised. This is
particularly true if you are married. Marriages should be worth saving. You and
your spouse are encouraged to attend marriage counseling together. After a close
examination, you may find a ton of other reasons why your intimacy isn't what it
should be. These additional reasons may include being concerned with work or
being concerned with money. A marriage counselor can help you work through
those concerns, which may help to improve the level and amount of intimacy that
you receive at home.

Despite the fact that there are times when professional help is needed to
improve intimacy in a marriage, there are many individuals and couples who opt
not to seek professional help. One of the most common reasons for doing so is
embarrassment. If you are on the one who is embarrassed, it is important to
remember that intimacy problems are actually very common in a marriage,
especially a long-term marriage. Do not be afraid to seek professional help.

As a recap, if you are unsatisfied with the current level of intimacy that you
are receiving in your marriage, professional help may be needed. There may be
an underlying issue that needs to be discussed or treated. Don't let your fear
of embarrassment hold back you or your relationship.

Unhappy In Bed? Should You Talk to Your Partner?

Are you in a relationship? If you are, are you currently happy with your sex
life or the level of intimacy that you and your partner share? If not, you may
be unsure as to how to proceed. You may be interested in talking to your
partner, but you may also be nervous and fearful at the same time.

So, is it a good idea to let your partner know that you are unhappy in bed? Of
course it is. A dull or boring sex life can have a negative impact on a
relationship. It is also important to note that an open line of communication
is an important component of a happy and healthy relationship, both in the
physical and emotional sense. If you cannot talk to your partner about sex, how
do you honestly expect your relationship to continue on?

As it was previously stated, communication is key to a successful relationship
and not just in the bedroom. If you can talk to your partner about sex, you can
likely talk to them about anything. This means that your relationship is less
likely to suffer from a lack of communication or poor communication. This may
translate into less arguments and more time in the bedroom.

Another reason why you should talk to your partner if you are currently unhappy
with the intimacy received is because it will improve. The last thing that your
partner wants to hear is that they aren't providing you with enough pleasure
and excitement. As soon as your wants, needs, and desires are openly discussed,
your intimacy levels may skyrocket. It is also important to note that you will
eventually end up being more satisfied in bed.

Another reason why all intimacy problems should be discussed with your partner
is because they too can be satisfied more. When you do bring about the
discussion of sex but sure not to just focus on your wants, needs and desires.
Ask your partner for input as well. They may have their own suggestions. To
have a happy and healthy relationship, as well as sex life, both of you need to
be satisfied. Pleasure should not be one sided only.

Although there are a number of pros and cons to talking about your unhappiness
in bed with your partner, there are also a number of downsides to doing so as
well. One of those being difficulty. For many men and women, the subject of sex
can be discomforting to talk about. Add in the fact that you are expressing
displeasure or the need for change and an uncomfortable situation may ensure.

It is also important to note that talking about your unhappiness in bed can
also have an adverse, negative effect on your relationship. Yes, it is
important to have an open line of communication in any serious relationship,
but there are some things that people just do not want to hear. Do not be
surprised if your partner gets defensive when talking to you. In fact, you may
want to prepare for it. It is natural for both men and women to get defensive
when they are essentially being told that their sex isn't good enough and needs
improvement.

If you do decide to talk to your partner about improving your intimacy in the
bedroom, just be sure to use caution and your best judgment. Do not criticize
your partner and try to not make them feel inadequate. Gently approaching the
situation has a number of benefits, including the elimination of hurt feelings.
It also better allows you to have an open, honest, and mature discussion.

As a reminder, there are a number of pros and cons to talking to your partner
about your unhappiness with your intimacy. With that being, the end result is
often well worth the discussion. Just remember to be careful about your
approach, as how you start the conversation and what you say during it may have
a significant impact on the outcome.

5 Easy Ways for Parents to Spice Up The Intimacy

Are you married? If you are, are you also a parent? If you are married and a
parent, how is your sex life? Depending on the age of your children and the
size of your family, it might not be great. Many parents wish that they had a
better level of intimacy with their partner and on more occasions. If you are
one of those individuals, there are a number of steps that you will want to
take.

When it comes to intimacy in a relationship, it is important to remember that
more than the bedroom and sex is and should be involved. Does your intimacy
only get started when you climb into bed? If so, there may lay the problem.

If you are a parent, you will want to consider using the service of a
babysitter. This will enable you and your spouse to get out of the house and
enjoy time alone. In fact, you can even have a "real," date. Go to dinner and a
movie with your spouse. Unfortunately, many married couples find themselves
entering into a comfort zone that results in their relationship feeling more
like a friendship than a marriage. Do not let your relationship get to this
point. Dating is a nice and easy way to prevent that from happening.

In addition to hiring a babysitter, rely on a trusted friend or family member.
What is nice about taking this approach is the comfort level. Instead of
picking a babysitter out of a phone book, you are entrusting the care of your
children into someone that you know and trust. This alone can result in you
having a better time on a date. You may also feel more comfortable leaving your
children with a trusted friend or relative overnight, as opposed to an unknown
babysitter. What does this mean? It means that in addition to enjoying a
traditional date, you may also enjoy a nice, sexual night of privacy, possibly
at a nice hotel.

In keeping with childcare that will allow you and your spouse to spend some
romantic, intimate, and quality time together, consider approaching other
parents. Do you know the parents of your children's friends? If you do,
consider making a monthly arrangement with them. Let them keep your kids for
one night and you can do the same for them. This approach is nice, as you are
likely to feel comfortable living your children in the care of another parent.
Also, remember that all parents find it difficult to seek privacy and intimacy.
You may be doing the other set of parents a huge favor.

As important as dating is and can be to your relationship, be realistic. Not
every night can be a date night. With that said, there are still ways that you
can be romantic and intimate with your spouse at home. For example, sneak in a
few hugs and kisses here and here. When your wife is cooking dinner, walk up to
her, rub her back, and plant a kiss on her. When your husband is walking past
you, stop him and give him a quick kiss. A simple kiss is enough to show your
partner that you care and want to be intimate with him, without making your
children, who may be watching, feel uncomfortable or out of place.

Another unique and creative way to keep the romance and intimacy alive when you
may be unable to have sex or go on a date is the use of text messages. Do you
and your spouse have and use cell phones? If you do, send them a sexy and
seductive text message. Let them know that you can't wait until they arrive
home. Even if your partner is sitting across the room from them, send them a
quick message. If you do not own or use a cell phone, know that a handwritten
love note can be just as effective.

As you can see, there are a number of ways that you, as parents, can still have
a happy and healthy sex life. Implement a few of these steps to help keep your
relationship and its romance alive and well.

Experimenting in the Bedroom: Your Options Reviewed

Are you tired of having the "same ole sex," with your spouse? If you are, you
may be looking for ways to experiment in the bedroom. After all, experimenting
in the bedroom has been successful for many other married couples and you may
experience the same results.

As much as you may know that you want to spice things up in the bedroom, you
may not know how you should go about doing so. What is nice about bedroom
experimenting is the options that you have. There are so many for you to choose
from. Just a few of those options are highlighted below for your convenience.

Trying a new sex position is a simple, yet effective way to increase the amount
of pleasure and that you receive from intimacy. Does your current sex just
involve you or your wife on top? If it does, expand your horizons. There are
literally hundreds of different ways that you can have sex. Starting trying
them out today.

Sex toys are another great way that you can experiment in the bedroom. If you
aren't already using sex toys, starting doing so. There are so many toys and
accessories for you to choose from. This means that something out there will be
able to heat up your bedroom. For privacy, as well as the largest selection of
sex toys, consider shopping online.

Pornographic videos can also be used to heat up your bedroom. Unfortunately,
many men and women are afraid to bring porn into the bedroom, but you shouldn't
have to be. For example, just because your wife has never suggested watching a
movie before, it doesn't mean that she doesn't seek enjoyment or pleasure from
them. For the ultimate level of satisfaction, you and your partner should pick
out a movie together.

In addition to full-blown pornographic films, there are also instructional sex
videos available for sale and for renting. Although these videos may not be
romantic or seductive in nature, they can show you new ways to have sex. As it
was previously stated, there are a number of benefits to spicing up your sex
positions.

The use of lingerie and sex costumes in the bedroom is another form of
experimentation that you may want to try. It is an approach that you may want
to take if you or your partner want to start out slow. If you are the wife,
remember that there are costumes and pieces of lingerie that your husband can
wear as well. You don't have to be the only one who dresses up. In fact, you
can and should encourage your husband to do the same.

In keeping with dressing up for sex, role playing can also help you bring new
fun and excitement into the bedroom. Role playing and costumes often go
together. For example, if you have a robe and a maid's outfit, your wife can be
the maid who carries on an affair with her boss, and so forth. In fact, when it
comes to role playing, you have so many different options. Be sure to use your
imagination.

As you can see, you do have a number of different options when looking to
experiment in the bedroom. There are also many more options that you have,
including the addition of a third participant. No matter which way you choose
to spice up things in the bedroom, be sure to use your best judgment. Make sure
that your partner is a ready and willing participate.

Experimenting in the Bedroom: The Dangers of Going Too Far

If you are looking to improve your sex life, chances are you may be up for a
little bit of experimenting. Experimenting in the bedroom is how many couples
improve their relationships and not only in the bedroom. The only problem is
that some individuals do not know that there is a line that shouldn't be
crossed.

Before you suggest experimenting in the bedroom to your partner or before you
start doing, it is important to know that there are consequences for going too
far. Before closely examining those consequences, it is important to determine
what too far actually means. Here is the problem, many individuals are unsure.
You know your partner through. Will he or she be turned on with the addition of
a new sex partner or sex toys or will he or she be turned off? You should know
before you proceed.

As for what the consequences are to taking experimenting in the bedroom too
far, your partner's feelings may be hurt. Unfortunately, many spouses and
significant others believe that experimentation is needed in the bedroom
because they aren't able to fulfill your desires enough on their own. If this
wasn't bad enough, their mind may start to wander. Do you really want to be
with them any more? Are you cheating? Will you start cheating soon?

Another consequence to taking experimentation in the bedroom too far is the
view that your partner may develop about you. Do you want to add another sex
partner into the mix? If you do, your significant other may start to think very
poorly of you. She may think that you are sick or sex crazed. If your main goal
is to improve your overall relationship, not just the intimacy in the bedroom,
this is an important factor that you will want to take into consideration
before suggestion something extreme.

If you take experimenting in the bedroom too far, your partner may no longer
wish to have sex with you. In fact, he or she may start to avoid having any
form of intimacy with you. This occurs for a number of different reasons.
Typically, if your partner is turned off by what you are suggesting, they are
likely to put off having sex with you, even just for a short period of time.

If avoiding sex wasn't enough, you may find your relationship coming to an end.
Unfortunately, many individuals, possibly just like you, do know how big of a
deal experimentation in the bedroom can be. Remember that there is a difference
between trying a new sex position and having your spouse pretend to be an old
girlfriend of yours or even bringing an old girlfriend into the bedroom. If you
are not careful with how you proceed, spicing up your intimacy may be the least
of your problems. You may find yourself alone and in an empty bed, having to
start the whole process over again.

As you can see, there are a number of consequences to expecting too much of
your partner in the bedroom. Experimenting in the bedroom can help to spice up
your sex life, but just be sure to use your best judgment. Do not offer up
suggestions that you already know your partner will refuse, as there may be
serious consequences for doing so.




Experimenting in the Bedroom: Should You Make a Change?

How is your sex life? Does the thought of having sex with your partner get you
revved up and excited? If not, it may be time for a change.

For many couples, the thought of uneventful sex can be looked upon as a
required task or a duty, as opposed to a period of enjoyable pleasure. As
relationships grow and expand in time, so should a couple's sex life. If this
is not what is happening with your relationship, a change may be needed.
Unfortunately, many men and women believe that change requires a new sex
partner, but that doesn't have to be the case. There are a number of ways that
you can your current sex partner can experiment and bring new life into your
bedroom.

It is important to know that there are many new bedroom techniques and tricks
readily available for couples to try. These new techniques and tricks may be
just what your sex life and relationship needs. Experimentation can come in the
formats of both physical and emotional. For more information on ways that you
can bring new life into your bedroom, with the use of experimentation, please
continue reading on.

Do you and your partner currently rely on the use of sex toys? If not, you may
want to give them a try. Sex toys can make sex more fun and exciting. In fact,
did you know that they can also help to make you feel young again? Toys are
available for multiple uses. Concerning these items, it is also important to
remember that you don't have to go into "kinky," territory. There are
accessories, such as a new outfits, blindfolds, and massage oils that also fall
into the category.

Experimenting in the bedroom can also involve trying a new position. As for the
benefits of doing so, a new intimate position tends to increases excitement and
satisfaction levels. Did you also know that it can increase the number of
calories burned? While we don't always look at intimacy from the standpoint of
exercise, it is an added benefit to take into consideration. If you need ideas
or suggestions, invest in a new Kama Sutra book. Just remember that some
positions look nice on paper, but they may be too difficult or unrealistic for
you and your partner to try.

The use of romantic or pornographic movies can also be used as a way to
experiment in the bedroom. Before inciting intimacy with your partner, consider
starting a movie. Romantic and seductive movies can help to get you in the mood
for what is about to come. You may also get new fun and exciting ideas for the
bedroom. As for what you will find available for sale, subjects range from
instructional sex movies all the way up to hard-core pornographic films.

Role playing can add new excitement to a sexual relationship that is in need of
improvement. When role playing is involved, it is best to inquire about your
partner's desires and fantasies. Ask your partner what kind of person or type
of person they fantasize about. If they don't provide you with an answer, offer
up a surprise. Be sure to share your fantasies and desires with your partner as
well.

The above mentioned ways are just a few of the many ways that you can revive
your sex life. Experimenting in the bedroom has proven successful for many
couples and their relationships. With luck, it may be able to do the same for
your relationship. With that said, it may be best to proceed with caution.

Before you implement these changes or ideas, discuss them with your partner. Do
not make the mistake of assuming your partner will be "all game." To have a
happy and healthy sex life, an open line of communication is important. Comfort
is also vital. Intimacy should result in pleasure for both you and your partner,
not discomfort or embarrassment.

Can Yoga Really Help You Have Better Sex?

Are you a woman who is looking to improve your sex life? If you are, you may
automatically start thinking of new ways for you to experiment in the bedroom.
Of course, trying new things will likely prove to be successful, but did you
also know that there is a much easier and much more relaxing approach that you
can take? There is and that approach is called yoga.

So yoga and sex? If you are wondering what the connection is, you are not
alone. Many women automatically think that there can't be a connection there.
This is because exercise and sex often aren't too activities that are used in
the same sentence. But, it is important for you to know that yoga can help you
have better sex.

In fact, do you have any idea how many people recommend yoga for improved
intimacy? A lot of people do. These people include women, just like you, their
sex partners, fitness instructors, and medical professionals. If all of these
people say there is a connection between better intimacy and sex, they must be
right.

What it is important to remember is that being fit in general is likely to give
you more self-confidence. When your self-confidence levels are high, your
satisfaction in the bedroom will automatically increase. It will still actually
increase even if the sex doesn't change at all! How amazing is that?

Practicing yoga and exercising in general can also give you a better awareness
of your body. This is important to having a good sex life. You may notice
things about your body when you do aerobics, yoga, or just stretch. You can
begin to better understand your body, its flexibility, and your limits. This
alone can help to improve your sex life.

The art of yoga relies on body awareness, body movement, and breathing. Many
experts claim that these three components are important to having healthy
intimacy levels. In fact, did you know that your sex life with yoga will
improve even if it wasn't your goal or the main purpose for you taking up yoga?
That is also pretty neat.

As previously stated, when you have better body awareness, you are more likely
to enjoy sex. Body awareness is one of the many foundations that yoga is built
on. Being aware of your body can help to give you a better image of yourself,
which can, in turn, increase your sex drive and ignite passion.

As for the breathing of yoga, it is so much more than just taking a breath
while sitting on the couch at home. The breathing that yoga calls for actually
helps to make your spine and your pelvis stronger. What does this mean for
intimacy? It can result in better action and movement. You may find yourself
being able to have sex longer. Your ability to try new sex positions
successfully also improves.

Despite the fact that yoga is often referred to as a "woman's workout," it
isn't. More men are starting to enjoy yoga now than before. Why? Perhaps, it
has to do with what yoga can do for your sex life. After all, all men and women
want to achieve maximum pleasure in the bedroom. If your boyfriend or husband is
one of those men, and they should be, convince them to try yoga with you. You
may very will find yourself going at it in the shower or heading to the bedroom
immediately following a yoga session.

Can Losing Weight Help Improve Your Sex Life?

Are you a woman who is unhappy in the bedroom? If you are, there are likely a
number of reasons for your unhappiness. Despite the possibility of a number of
causes, do you think that your weight may be to blame? If you are overweight or
obese, it may be.

Since you now know that your weight may have an impact on your sex life, you
may be curious what weight loss can do for you. It is really possible to
improve your intimacy with weight loss? Unfortunately, the answer isn't always
the same, as it tends to vary. Weight loss and its impact on your sex life will
honestly all depend on you and your own personal situation.

For starters, many women make the mistake of believing that their lost weight
resulted in better sex. It can, but did you know that many women are just
deceiving themselves? Being intimate with your partner may feel better and
result in more pleasure, but it honestly may be due to an increase your
self-confidence levels. Women who lose weight do see an increase in
self-confidence. This extra confidence often allows women to enjoy it better.
What does this mean? It means that the sex may be the sale ole sex you have
been receiving for years, but it just feels better now.

Another impact that your ability to lose weight may have on your sex life is
your ability to experiment in the bedroom. Experimentation is a key to keeping
your relationship "hot." One type of experimentation that you may want to try
is a new sex position. Has your weight previously kept you from being creative?
If so, now is your time to shine. Show your partner that you now have moves that
you never even thought of trying before.

In keeping with experimenting in the bedroom, it is important to know that
experimentation comes in a number of different formats. One other format is
that of role playing. As previously stated, weight loss gives may women
confidence. You may now have the confidence to have sex with the lights on,
wear sexy lingerie, or a full-blown costume. These large steps can do wonders
for your relationship, both inside and outside of the bedroom.

It is also important to take your partner into consideration. Unfortunately,
this is not something that many women take into consideration. If you were to
lose weight, there is a good chance your partner will like the improvement.
Yes, your husband most likely loves and worships you now, but there is still
something attractive about women who take steps to better themselves,
especially in terms of appearance. If you do decide to lose weight, let your
husband know that you lost the weight for them and to better your sex life.
They will not only be proud of you, but they may also be turned on.

Since there is a good chance that your sex life will improve with weight loss,
you may be interested in starting a weight loss plan today. If so, go ahead and
do so. Use your need for improved intimacy in the bedroom as a source of
motivation. When you can envision yourself thin and in the bedroom having an
amazing time with your husband, you may find it much easier to lose weight, as
well as exciting. Speaking of which, remember that a healthy diet and a strong
exercise plan are needed.

The more weight you have to lose, the more your sex life may improve. With that
said, be sure to use your best judgment. If you are average or thin, weight loss
is not needed and can be dangerous. If you are seriously overweight, consider
talking to your doctor before starting a new diet or exercise plan. Losing
weight to improve your sex life is important, but don't put your body at risk
just receive extra satisfaction in the bedroom.

5 Ways to Improve Your Intimacy with Your Husband

Are you married? If you are, you likely love your husband. With that said, love
isn't always enough to keep a relationship going strong. Intimacy is very
important to having a strong, happy, and healthy relationship.

How is your life in the bedroom? Do you think that your sex and intimacy can be
improved? If so, you may be nervous about discussing the subject with your
husband. After all, your husband may wrongly get the impression that they don't
satisfy you anymore. If you are interested in improving your intimacy with your
husband, there are still a number of other, different approaches that you can
take. A few of these approaches are touched on below.

1 -- Date

If you and your husband have been married for a while, there is a good chance
that you haven't gone out on a date in a while. Many married couples get to a
point in their relationship that is commonly called "the comfort zone." This
zone is not one that you want to be in, as your relationship may feel more like
a friendship. To prevent this from happening, ask your husband out on a date.

Although many wives believe that their husbands should do the date asking, you
sometimes have to take hold of the situation yourself. Now may be one of those
times. Choose an activity that is romantic, such as a romantic comedy for a
movie or a nice restaurant. This can help to spark a little bit of romance and
passion in your relationship, which may lead to better and closer intimacy at
home.

2 -- Show Romantic Gestures

When it comes to "wowing," in a relationship, women sometimes think that men
should do it. You will also want to "wow," your husband, like you did the first
time that you met. One of the easiest ways to do so is by performing a number of
romantic gestures. When out shopping with your husband, grab their hand and hold
it. When walking by them in the house, give them a quick kiss. Sending a love
note to work with them is another romantic gesture that you may want to try.

3 -- Be Sexy and Seductive

If your marriage enters into the above mentioned comfort zone, sex and intimacy
may seem like a thing of the past. If you do have sex, it may seem more like a
responsibly, a chore, or even work. To help reduce these feelings, be sexy and
seductive. Do not wait for your husband to initiate sex and do not ask if your
husband is up for it first, just get right down to business. Strip for your
husband or simply just remove their clothes. Snuggle next to them on the couch
and just start massaging their whole body. You may be surprised just how easy
and effective it is to be sexy and seductive.

4 -- Be Spontaneous

As it was previously stated, do not ask your husband if he wants to have sex
and do not wait for him to start. Instead, take matters into your own hands.
Whether you start with a little bit of foreplay or jump right into the
intercourse, do so. Your husband should like the surprise. Also, remember that
being spontaneous involves having sex at different times of the day, as well as
in different locations of the house.

5 -- Offer to Experiment In the Bedroom

To improve sex and intimacy it is important to know that a change can do you
good. You may want to suggest to your husband that you experiment in the
bedroom or take them up on their suggestion to do so. Remember that
experimenting in the bedroom doesn't have to mean getting an additional sex
partner or doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable. A new sex
position may be just what your relationship needs.

As you can see, there are a number of easy ways that you can go about improving
your intimacy with your husband. So what are you waiting for? Get started today.

5 Signs Your Sex Life May Need a Makeover

Are you in a relationship? If you are, are you pleased with the amount of sex
and intimacy that you are receiving? Are you unsure? For many men and women,
this question is a lot harder to answer than it looks.

If you are unsure as to whether or not your sex life is good, it may be time
for you to find out? Why because if you are pleased with the amount of intimacy
that you receive, you should be sure to tell your partner on occasion. Doing so
can help to improve your relationship. On the other hand, if you are not
pleased with the level of intimacy received, it may be time for you to make a
change, like experimenting in the bedroom.

So do you have a good sex life? To help you get an accurate answer to that
question, five signs that your sex life may need improving are outlined below.

Sign #1 -- You Find Sex Boring

Unfortunately, many couples, especially those in long-term relationships, get
to a certain point where sex just isn't fun anymore. Does it seem more like
work or a chore to you? Being intimate with your partner should not seem like a
responsibly that you are required to fulfill. Instead, it should be fun and
exciting.

Do you reject being intimate with your partner? Do you put off going to bed
with them in fear of being intimate? If you do, your sex life may need an
improvement or a change.

Sign #2 -- You Are Left Unsatisfied

If and when you do get intimate with your partner, do you achieve maximum
pleasure? If not, your sex life may be in serious trouble. This is most often
the case with women. Some women find it more difficult to achieve maximum
pleasure in the bedroom. But, know that it is possible. You may need to offer
suggestions to your partner or guide them. Whatever you do, just be sure to
take action right away. A relationship where only one party is pleased, is
likely to fail.

Sign #3 -- Sex Feels Like a Responsibility

As it was previously stated, being intimate with your partner should not seem
like work or a responsibility that you must fulfill. If it does, it is time for
you to change. Be spontaneous. Initiate sex yourself, as opposed to waiting for
your partner to do so. Spice up your intimacy by experimenting in the bedroom
with a new position or simply just have relations at a different time and
place. Whatever approach you do take, be sure to do something. Do not let an
otherwise healthy relationship fail because sex is something that you would
rather avoid.

Sign #4 -- You Don't Have It

To have a good sex life, you must first be having sex. Are you? If you are in a
relationship, you should be. Whether you get intimate with your partner on a
daily basis or even just once a week, this closeness is important to your
relationship and not just in the physical sense.

If you are currently not in a relationship, that doesn't mean that you
shouldn't have or not get the opportunity to experience intimacy and closeness
with another adult. Take action to start feeling wanted, needed, and loved
today. This may involve using an online dating website or just visiting a bar
with a bunch of your friends.

Sign #5 -- Your Relationship Is Failing

Do you and your partner spend most of your time arguing? If so, your
relationship may be in serious trouble. Despite arguing about a topic not
related to intimacy, such as money or work, did you know that your lack of
intimacy may be to blame? Couples who are happy inside the bedroom are likely
to be happy outside of it as well. The two should go hand in hand.

So do you have a happy and healthy sex life? If not, remember that there are a
number of steps that you can take to make an improvement in your levels of
satisfaction.

Does Your Sex Life Need Improving: Signs That It May

Are you in a relationship? If you are, are you currently happy, in terms of
sex? Of course, it is important to make sure that you and your partner get
along, have a good time together outside of the bedroom, and do not argue, but
intimacy should not be ignored.

To help you determine if your sex life needs improving, please continue reading
on, as a few signs that it may are highlighted below.

You don't have sex. Not being intimate with your partner is a good sign that
your sex life could use a makeover. Before proceeding any farther, it is
important to determine why you and your partner are not being intimate. Do you
not feel the need to be? Is your work or family getting in the way? Determining
the route of your problem is the best way to fix it.

In keeping with not being sexually active, the same rules do not apply to you
if you are not in a relationship. If you are not in a relationship, but if you
want to experience intimacy, there are a number of steps that you will want to
take. First, you will want to find someone who is compatible with you. To do
so, use an online dating service, a speed dating service, or ask someone that
you know to set you up on a date.

If you do have sex, how often do you have it? Not being intimate with your
partner enough is another sign that your sex life may need improving. When
determining what is the appropriate amount of times to be intimate, you will
find that it depends. A number of factors, like your children and your work
schedule, should be taken into consideration. With that said, learn how to make
time for intimacy, as it is an important component of having a healthy and happy
relationship.

Another common sign that your intimacy may need improving is if the sex that
you do have is dull, boring, and no longer exciting. Once it becomes a chore to
you or it seems like a responsibility that you must perform, action should be
taken. To have a happy and healthy relationship, intimacy is important. With
that being said, not just any intimacy will do. You should get excited about
going to the bedroom with your partner and you should end the event satisfied.

If you and your partner are growing distant, it could be a sign that your sex
life needs to improve. Why? As previously stated, intimacy is an important
component of having a healthy relationship. Although a relationship should not
revolve around sex, it should be an important part of it. If you and your
partner are growing distant, consider using the bedroom to make improvements.
When you do so, you may end up seeing the rest of your relationship properly
fall into place.

If any of the above mentioned signs or situations apply to you and your love
life, you may need to make a few changes. The good news is that it is easy to
go about doing so. If you can't seem to find the time to be intimate with your
partner, make time, even if you must stay up later or get up earlier. If your
sexual encounters are dull and boring, consider experimenting. A new position
or the use of sex toys may be just what your relationship needs.

Having Sex After Having a Baby: Tips for Husbands

Has there recently been a new addition to your family? If so, congratulations!
There is nothing more exciting or rewarding than becoming a parent.

As rewarding and as exciting as it can be to be a new parent, you may want to
start returning to your normal routines. Depending on your relationship with
your wife, that routine may have involved daily or regular sex. Unfortunately,
many men are disappointed to learn that their sex life is not going to be what
it was like before, at least right away.

If this is your first child, you may not be familiar with how sex after a baby
works for women. If that is the case, please continue reading on, as a few
helpful tips are outlined below for your convenience.

Most importantly it is important to give your wife space and time. She may not
be ready for sex yet, emotionally or physically. In fact, did you know that
women need time to heal after having a baby? Many doctors recommend waiting at
least a month before having sex after giving birth. With that said, your wife
may be different. She may be ready to resume intimacy sooner or later than the
average, recommended time frame.

In keeping with giving your wife time, it is important to not have high
expectations right away. These expectations should also include more than just
intimacy. As previously stated, having a baby is exciting and rewarding, but it
can also be very overwhelming for new parents, especially moms. Late night
feeding sessions and fussy babies may prevent your wife from wanting to
initiate sex, as well as getting many of her daily tasks completed, like
cleaning the house or having dinner prepared on time.

Speaking of which, if you want to improve the intimacy in your relationship and
not just in the bedroom, be sure to help your wife out. This may involve taking
a late night feeding session with your new baby, doing the dishes, cooking
dinner, and so forth. Many new moms feel so helpless and overwhelmed
immediately following the birth of a baby. Do not let your wife feel this way.
The kind gestures of helping on your part may improve your relationship and in
more ways than one.

It is also important to not push your wife to have sexual relations with you
when she is uncomfortable or unready to do so. As previously stated, it does
take women time to heal after having a baby. It is also important to take other
factors into consideration. Is your baby sleeping in your room? If so, your wife
may not feel comfortable being intimate then. Your wife may also not be ready to
hire a baby sitter or even allow a trusted relative to care for your child. This
means that a romantic weekend or night away is often out of the question. Most
new moms needs months or even longer before they are ready for this big step.

Since there is a good chance that your wife may not be ready to resume intimacy
in your relationship, it is important to be patient. Instead of dwelling on not
having sex, work for it. Use the time to "wow," your wife all over again. Do so
with romantic gestures, such as preparing a nice dinner at home, flowers, and
love notes.

The Pros and Cons of Experimenting in the Bedroom

Are you unhappy with your sex life right now? If you are, you may have thought
of ending your relationship. Of course, it is your decision to do so, but did
you know that you can use experimentation as a way to improve your sex life?
You can. Experimenting in the bedroom has proven successful for many couples.

As nice as it is to hear that experimentation in the bedroom can help to
improve your sex life, you may be a little bit nervous about the whole process.
After all, you do have to get your partner to agree. In fact, this is where the
discomfort comes in. Why? Because there are a number of pros and cons to
experimenting the in the bedroom.

One of many pros or plus sides to experimenting in the bedroom is that you get
a change. A change can always do you good. In fact, in many relationships, a
change is vital to is survival. If your sexual life feels more like a chore or
a requirement, it is important that you take action right away, before it ends
up being too late.

Another pro or plus side to experimenting in the bedroom is the improvement
that your sex life can see. As previously stated, a change does most
relationships good. Trying new things in the bedroom can bring new blood,
romance, and excitement into your relationship. You may find yourself being
happier, as well as more pleased after being intimate with your partner.

The options that you have are another one of the many reasons why experimenting
in the bedroom is a good idea. Unfortunately, when many men and women think of
experimenting in the bedroom, kinky things often come to mind, such as an
additional partner. Of course, you can go this way if you would like, but you
don't have to. Experimenting in the bedroom can be something as simple as
changing positions or role playing. Additional options involve dressing up in
sexy costumes, the use of sex toys, and the use of romantic or pornographic
films.

Although there are a number or pros or plus sides to experimenting in the
bedroom it is also important to remember that there are cons or downsides to
doing so as well. One of those is approaching your partner with the subject. If
you are in a mature relationship, you should be able to openly discuss sex with
your partner. With that said, experimenting in the bedroom is a topic that can
be touchy. Your partner may automatically think that they aren't providing you
with enough pleasure, like what they have to give just isn't good enough. With
that said, be sure to proceed with caution. Offer up a few suggestions, but let
your partner toss in a few of his or her own ideas.

Another one of the many cons or downsides to experimenting in the bedroom is
the fact that your partner may not be up the change. They may believe that your
sex life is just fine the way that it is. While it is important to not be too
pushy, you also want to get your point across. Your partner needs to realize
that a healthy relationship involves two people, not just one. If your partner
is offended with your suggestions, give them time. As previously stated, many
men and women believe that experimentation is needed because they aren't good
enough in the bedroom. Even if that wasn't the point you were trying to make,
still give your partner time to come around.

As recap, there both a number of pros and cons to experimenting in the bedroom.
So what should you do? Your actions should all depend on your wants and needs.
Your relationship will only get worse if you are not happy, physically or
emotionally. Talk to your partner about experimenting in the bedroom. You may
be surprised just how acceptable they are of your suggestion.

Improving Your Sex Life: How to Be Spontaneous

Are you looking to improve your sex life? If you are, you may have already
heard that being spontaneous is advised. Spontaneity often leads it an increase
in interest and an increase in satisfaction, in terms of intimacy.
Unfortunately, some men and women find being spontaneous a lot easier said than
done. If you are one of those individuals, please continue reading on for some
helpful tips.

One of the many ways that you can be spontaneous is by not waiting for your
partner to initiate sex. Unfortunately, many women wait for their husbands or
boyfriends to get sex started. Why wait? You shouldn't. In fact, did you know
that your partner may be hoping that you start showing more interest in being
intimate with them? What better way to do so than to initiate sex yourself?

A creative way to be spontaneous, where sex and intimacy is concerned, is by
using text messages. If you and your partner have and use cell phones, send
sexy and seductive text messages to them. In addition to text messages, you can
also call your partner or send love notes with them when they walk out the door.

As previously stated, there are some individuals who find it difficult to be
spontaneous. Parents are often one of those individuals. Even if you are a
parent who has children in the house, there are a still a number of ways that
you can be spontaneous, in terms of intimacy with you partner. Did you just put
your children down for bed? Jump on your partner, literally, as soon as your
kids leave the room. Most parents want to sit down and relax after their kids
have gone to bed, but show your partner that you have other things on your mind.

Having sex somewhere other than the bed or the bedroom is another way to be
spontaneous with your partner. If you are a parent who has kids in the house,
just be careful. Don't have sex outside of the bedroom when they may be awake
at night and don't be too loud or you may have an uncomfortable situation on
yours hands.

As for where you can have sex outside of the bedroom, use your creativity.
Where do you want to have sex? What locations would allow you to try new
positions that just can't be done in a bed? In addition to being intimate in
places like on the couch, in a closet, in the bathroom, or on the kitchen
table, consider going outside of the home as well, like to a hotel.

Speaking of getting intimate outside of the home, surprise your partner. You
can do this by booking a night at a hotel in town. Make sure you choose one
that has romantic rooms or an onsite hot tub or swimming pool. If you are a
parent, arrange childcare for your children first, like by calling on a trusted
friend or family member. Don't tell your partner about your plans until you are
ready to leave, as being spontaneous involves surprising them.

As you can see, there are a number of different ways that you can use
spontaneity as a way to improve your relationship, both inside and outside of
the bedroom. What are you waiting for? Get started today? Your partner may
appreciate your quick thinking.

How Text Messaging Can Help to Improve Your Sex Life

Are you looking for an easy, yet unique way to improve your sex life or even
just your relationship in general? If you are, do you and your partner own and
use cell phones? If so, improving your relationship through the use of text
messages is a fun and creative, yet unique approach to take. If you haven't
already tired this approach, you should.

As nice as it is to hear that text messaging can help to improve your
communication or your sex life, you may be looking for more information. First,
you may be wondering if it is really possible to do. Can a simple text message
ignite passion in your relationship? Yes, it can. In fact, you may be surprised
just how much passion can be ignited. Please continue reading on for more
information on just how it can and should be done.

For starters, do you have any sexual fantasies or desires that you would like
to see transformed into reality? Are you bored with your current level of
intimacy and would like to make changes? If so, you need to speak with your
partner. Unfortunately, this is often a lot easier said than done for some men
and women. You should have no problem talking to your partner about intimacy,
but the subject may be one that makes you feel uncomfortable. If that is the
case, text messaging may be an easy approach to take. The ability to mask
yourself behind a cell phone may provide you with a certain level of comfort
and peace of mind.

In addition to using text messages as a way to improve your communication and
your sex life, you can and should use it as a form of foreplay. Unfortunately,
many individuals make the mistake of assuming that foreplay can only happen in
the bedroom, but it doesn't have to be that way. Is your partner on their way
home from work? Are you in the mood for intimacy? If you are, send them a few
sexy, seductive, and suggestive text messages. In a few creative words, let
them know that you are at home waiting for them and ready for an adventure.

As romantic and as adventurous as using a cell phone to add new life to your
intimacy can be, it is also important to proceed with caution. There are a few
important dos and don't that you first need to know. Do not send sexy or
seductive text messages to a family cell phone. A family cell phone can be
defined as one that all members of the family uses, like one that your son or
daughter may borrow. These types of text messages are and should be private.
Also, avoid sending text messages to work issued cell phones. Often times, text
messages are not allow, but they may also be viewed by others.

In addition to spicing up your current relationship or marriage, text messages
can also be used as a way to court new partners. Did you just recently get the
phone number of a nice and attractive man or woman at a bar or party? If you
did, send them a flirty text message. For many, sending a text message is a lot
easier than placing an actual phone call. When first making contact, be sure to
use caution and your best judgment. Do not go overboard or be too sexy or
seductive. There is a better time and place for these types of messages.
Speaking of that time and place, wait until after you have received a response
back or until after your first real date.

As a recap, text messaging is a unique, fun, and creative way to improve your
sex life. If you and your partner own cell phones, start using them today. You
may be more than pleased with the results. As a reminder, text messages can
also be used to get the communication started in a new relationship.

Why You Should Have Sex on a Daily Basis

Are you in a relationship? If you are, are you pleased with the frequency of
intimacy? If you would like to be more sexually active with your partner, you
will want to set a goal for yourself. Share that goal with your partner. The
two of you can make a game out of trying to achieve. To get you started, a
great goal to have is having sex on a daily basis.

Being intimate on a daily basis? Right now, you are either thinking two things.
First, you may be thinking "we already do that!" If so, good for you. You
officially have a happy and healthy sex life. On the other, you may be thinking
"no way, there is no time." If that is the case, know it isn't true. You may be
surprised just how many couples out there have sexual relations on a daily
basis. It is also important to note that these couples often have the
healthiest and happiest relationships of all.

As for why you should set the goal of being intimate on a daily basis, you will
find that dong so is healthy for your relationship. As previously stated,
couples who have intimacy on a daily basis often have the healthiest
relationships. When in a serious relationship, intimacy is important. Yes, your
relationship should not be based on sex, but it is a huge component of it.
Connecting intimately shows your partner that you truly love them. So why not
take steps to express your love everyday?

Your chances of experimenting are also likely to increase when you have sexual
relations on a daily basis. Why? Because if you have sex daily, you may
honestly get bored with that you are doing. However, instead of opting to
reduce the frequency of intimacy, many couples decide to experiment instead.
This is something that may provide you with excitement or a source of
motivation. This experimentation may involve the use of sex toys, pornographic
videos, new positions, and role playing.

Sex is also good for your health. That is just another one of the many reasons
why you may want to set a daily goal. Those who have healthy sex lives are less
likely to suffer from stress and depression. This may improve your relationship
by limiting the amount of disagreements you and your partner have. It is also
important to note that sex burns calories. What could be better than working to
lose weight while being adventurous with the man or woman you love?

The above mentioned information was designed for men and women who are in
exclusive relationships, such as a marriage. If you are not involved with
anyone right now, daily sex may not be a wise idea for you. This is because you
may end up with a different partner each and every night. A s fun and as
exciting as this may sound, you may end up putting your health at risk.
Remember that your risk of developing a sexually transmitted disease increases
with each additional sex partner you have.

In conclusion, having sex on a daily basis is a good idea. If you aren't
already having daily sex, it may be a wise idea to set the goal. You may be
surprised just how much daily, intense intimacy can help to improve your
relationship.

Tips for Buying Sex Toys and Accessories

Are you looking for an easy way to spice up your sex life with your spouse? If
you are, you should know that experimenting in the bedroom has been successful
for many couples, just like you.

As nice as it is to know that experimenting in the bedroom may help to revive
the romance in your relationship and improve your satisfaction in the bedroom,
you may be curious about the buying process. This is because one of the first
ways that married couples experiment in the bedroom is with the use of sex toys
and other similar accessories.

If this is the first time that you are looking to purchase sex toys and other
similar accessories, you may be a little bit nervous about doing so. In fact,
you may be downright fearful of the whole process. You are, please continue
reading on, as some helpful buying tips are covered below.

First, it is important to know that sex toys and other similar accessories come
in a number of different formats. You can purchase pleasure enhancing toys, role
playing toys, massage oils and so forth. This is important to know as it may
eliminate some of the fear associated with going into a sex toy store and
buying something that will bring attention to yourself, like a huge blowup doll.

Speaking of bringing attention to yourself, it is important to know that the
use of sex toys in intimacy is increasing in popularity. Many individuals are
finding them to be a great new way to bring passion and excitement into the
bedroom. Although you might not know it, there is a good chance that your
friends and even some of your relatives use these popular toys and accessories.
Knowing that you are not alone may help to make the buying process a lot easier.

If you live near a large city or town, you should have multiple sex toy and
accessory shops for you to choose from. With that said, it you would prefer to
shop online, you can do that as well. For shopping online, perform a standard
internet search the type of items or accessories you are looking for. Choose a
website that has a large selection of sex toys and similar accessories
available for sale, a website that has good prices, and one that looks
reputable.

Many couples prefer shopping online for sex toys, as it does tend to limit the
embarrassment. The only thing is that you need to be careful with who you shop
with. You will want to do business with a company that is discrete. Make sure
your package doesn't arrive with a phrase like "We Sell Sex Toys," plastered
around the box. Also, what will appear on your credit card or bank statements?
This may be a concern of yours if you don't want what seems like the whole
world knowing what you do in your private life.

As a reminder, as fearful as you may be of walking into a sex store for the
first time or as worried you may be having a red box that screams sexual
contents sitting on your doorstep, don't worry. Remember that a lot of couples
use sex toys as a way to bring fun and excitement into the bedroom. If you are
looking to spice up your sex life, visit a local store with your spouse or
browse the internet together. This alone may help to get you in the mood.

College Students and Sex: Tips

Are you a student in college? If you are, you may spend most of your time
focusing on studying and your grades. With that said, it doesn't mean that you
don't have other needs. You may have a need for a relationship and a need for
sex. If your sex life is say nonexistent, you may be looking for tips on how to
"get with the program." If you are, please continue reading on.

To have intimacy with another individual, you first need to get out and meet
other people. How you do so should also depend on your wants and your needs, in
terms of intimacy. Are you just looking for a good time or would you like to
have a full-blown relationship? If a relationship is what you are after,
consider attending on campus events, such as concerts. You may also want to
join a college run program, such as a charity organization. This will help you
meet other college students who are not only nice and attractive, but ones that
share the same interests.

As nice as it is to have a relationship, you may not have the time or the need
for a serious relationship when in college. If that is the case, you may just
be after a good time here and there. If that is what you are looking for, you
may want to target social events, both on and off campus. There is a good
chance that a party is happening somewhere near your college this weekend. If
so, go attend. Another great option is to visit a bar. If you live in or around
a college town, there is a good chance that bars are stocked full of other young
students who are also looking to have a good time.

As a young adult, you likely already know the importance of safe sex, but it is
still a topic that needs be to mentioned. Never have unprotected sex, no matter
who you are having relations with. Birth control does not protect you against
any sexually transmitted diseases. There is nothing worse or life changing than
realizing you have a sexually transmitted disease, even if yours can be treated
or cured with medication. Don't let the lack of protection mess up your future
or the good grades you have been working so hard to achieve.

It is also important to remember to keep your expectations in check. If you are
looking for a relationship, do not automatically assume that your new sex
partner is as well. As previously stated, those who spend their nights at
parties or at bars aren't always looking for a serious relationship. Be sure to
have fun and be safe, but don't automatically start thinking that the guy you
are with is and will forever be "the one." This can often cause you trouble and
heartbreak. Don't let anything impact your future or the grades that you are
working so hard to get.

In conclusion, attending college is more than just about getting good grades
and starting your future. It is also about having a good time. If you are a
sexually active college student, you can continue to get your needs fulfilled
while still getting the education your future needs. Just remember to use your
head. Many college students have multiple sex partners so your chances of
catching a sexually transmitted disease increase significantly.



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